If you ‘ve been following my posts for even a short period you should know by now that most of the time I have a point to what I’m saying, I even tell you the scientific reasons why my point is valid. Today will be no different my friends.
How many times do you suppose we use or hear someone say “I Can’t”. All of us, and everyone is my guess. When you say “I Can’t” do you know you’ve just sent a very real chemically relayed message to your brain that tells you to go to your memory storage vaults and back up the “I Can’t” statement with “proof”.
Inside our heads, the mind is listening to everything – very carefully. So when you speak, you are giving instructions to the brain. Your memory will reinforce the “I can’t” for you. It is happy to oblige, because it wants you to feel good about your choices, that’s the ‘ol self-survival thingy kicking in! Is this true? Yup!
Everytime you say “I can’t” it’s harder to say you can! Our mind is wonderfully inventive when it comes to all the reasons (rationalizations) as to why we can’t do something. But it just doesn’t hold water, if it did, we would not have survived as a human race.
Now as far as rationalizations go, the biggy today is Time. It is a valid reason for not having the time to do a thing during your days activities – but it is not your enemy.
Time is precious and for many of us it does seem to run out quicker than we’d like it to. But the truth is if you really want something bad enough you are going to figure out a way to get it, aren’t you?
So if time isn’t the problem, but you still can’t seem to get those creative words to come out, relax let go a little bit.
Or maybe you’re at a different place and the words are done but you don’t know what to do next – or it seems so hard to do the next step (like it’s so much more to be done); this final step to realizing your dream coming true.
I recommend the following: Follow you heart, follow your dreams. Discipline is important. Understanding that effort + action will achieve results. Also research is important, spend a little time researching the “what & how” to do something . Put passion into this as well. Just don’t use the words “I Can’t”, because it isn’t true, you know, You Can!
I’ll leave you with (hopefully a little inspiration! It’s just a little seed of an idea. Some thoughts I would share with you.
Most mighty things – begin very small. Many great achievements were made with very slow and hesitant steps towards a goal. Success happened because those who achieved never stopped. And if they misstepped they still kept going, Perhaps they’d regroup or pause and start over, but they never stopped.
Don’t speak to me about cannots
Don’t try to stomp on my dreams
I am who I am and I feel what I feel
And my words are all there in my Reams
The Reams of my paper seem endless
My words upon words upon word,
But I’m true to myself and I’ll say what I say
And do all “I Can” to be Heard.
I’ll never give up or stop trying
Holding fast so that nothing can ban
My dream is to write and so I shall write,
I will write for I know that “I Can”!
Hold fast to your dreams, never let go, never stop.
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