Wouldn’t it be great if there was a self determination button. You see it sparkling out there in front of you. You reach out and hit the button, and just like magic – you become self determined and ready to take charge of your life.
Well, guess what? There is one. More of a metaphorical button than a physical one, but it’s still real. And it works too.
Self determination begins when you begin asking questions for yourself. Of yourself, of others. And once you get the answers, you act on them. You don’t wait for someone else. YOU make it happen.
So push the button, ask that first question. Here’s a good question to start off with: Do I feel good about myself and where I am in my life? Another good question: What can I do about it?
“There will always be those who support you
and those who don’t – more than a few,
but the one person in your life
you should know you can count on
is most emphatically – you.”
~ Penny L Howe, 2014
That word is a big one for me.
Each of us has our own personal belief system and values that we find important, but I think in life it still comes down to what we do with what life hands us.
It really is all about attitude, how we respond to life, others and our personal challenges. I learned very early on the extreme importance of attitude. I believe the following words are true. Even if the author of these words is unknown.
“I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me
and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with us all …”
Have a positive attitude today, you might surprise yourself how well it goes,
I’m guessing that if I had to pick the person we most often doubt or think poorly of, it is ourselves.Today is a wonderful day to begin believing in yourself. Starting Now! Here are a few quotes to lead the way.
“It’s not who you are that holds you back, it’s who you think you’re not!” Anonymous
“If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.”
Bruce Lee, martial arts master
One of the things I learned the hard way was that it doesn’t pay to get discouraged. Keeping busy and making optimism a way of life can restore your faith in yourself.
The most important person in your life each day that will make a positive difference in how you proceed will always be you. Let today be that day, Be happy, be positive, make it so,
Have an excellent weekend,